About The Book:
The Being Game: For the Love of Your Life

The Preface of the book

This wonderful life we live is filled with challenges, gifts, and lessons.
The BEING GAME was created to assist us in meeting those challenges, using our talents, and discovering what there is to be learned. This GAME helps us to see that the words we speak and think create our realities. Consequently, we can reinvent ourselves at any moment and create powerful conversations that can change our world. We have the opportunity to live fully, to create relationships that are a joy to be in, and to wake up in the morning energized and satisfied as we bring our dreams into reality. Each of us is a unique creation — perfect just the way we are. We don’t need fixing. Like a song, we have a different note to play in the melody of life. This game will assist you in composing your life as if it were a beautiful ballad written just for you by YOU.

Writing this book was not possible for me as a way of BEING prior to playing The BEING GAME. Playing the GAME helped me to shift who I was BEING so that my writing was effortless rather than burdensome. Personally, The BEING GAME has given me the tools to bring into existence a great, healing relationship. It has enabled me to stop playing out my resentments, fears, and righteousness, and to create a Song of Songs, a beautiful love story in my life.

As human beings we often think that our lives will be better, more satisfying, and fulfilled when we earn more money, live in that new home, drive that great car, or find the perfect relationship. While these things can bring joy and happiness, they don’t bring that peaceful, satisfying quality in living life day-by-day. Ultimately the quality of our lives—our satisfaction and fulfillment—can be predicated on who we are BEING at each moment in time. This book will take you less than an hour to read and will be with you for a lifetime.

We acknowledge everyone who has assisted in bringing The BEING GAME into existence. With heartfelt thanks, we acknowledge our loving families and friends. Special thanks to my and Kathy’s parents, Ed and Helen Fey, and Ed, Estelle and Anna Kowalski. This book is a legacy to our children Matt, Kris, Eric, Donna, Ken, Deanna, Kevin and to our grandchildren Sophia and Jack. With them the world is a wondrous place.

Play The BEING GAME For The Love of Your Life!

Sid Fey, Chicago 2004